A hate and love relationship?

Can you hate someone and at the same time care for them? This is something thats been going thru my mind ever since Bri ran away from her home.... and it's really annoying me... all she ever is doing is getting high of pot... and it's really pissing me offI mean I care & love her but she's getting nowhere fast in her life.....Her life isn't adding up to much so far....and it's starting to rub off on Amanda also.